I fell off the face of the world pretty abruptly but my own little world crumbled rather abruptly so I hope you all can forgive me.
I'm also writing from my phone which is annoying the living hell out of me but my laptop is still in Michigan along with all the rest of my belongings. Imagine living out of a suitcase for a week and how annoying that shit is. Now times it by 2 months and there you have my life.
Note to self: When you break up, just suck it up and grab all your shit. You'll thank yourself 2 months later when you then realize you have to drive 10 hours away just to blow $800 on a UHaul and drive right back.
Actually, this whole thing has been a huge learning experience. Probably one of the most painful things I've ever been through but let's learn things about break ups today, shall we?
1. Never move in with a guy after 1 month of dating. You effing idiot.
2. Don't buy a Great Dane together and don't fall in love with her.
3. Don't revolve your whole world around one person. Mother F.
4. Swear off all men & become a bitter person for the rest of your life.
5. Only do that for 5 minutes.
6. Surround yourself with all those amazing people you've been living so far away from for so long.
7. Drink insane amounts of vodka with these people until they start asking when you're going to allow them to be sober again.
8. Tell them NEVERRRR.
9. Get back to being you.. Not the person someone wanted you to be. You're a happier person when you are you.
10. Just go be awesome. Life is too short to be sad.
Welp. That's enough life lessons for a Tuesday. Can't wait to start stalking and loving on all of you again!
11 comments:
i did that whole go back later with a uhaul and a 14 hour drive after moving to a different state for a boy. it didn't end well either. good luck, lady
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STICK THE DOG IN THE UHAUL TOO! ;)
Break ups are the worst.
It totally understand. A year and half ago when i went through one, i needed a break from blogging.
just remember you are strong and everything always turns out okay in the end.
I can't wait to see you come back better than ever!
Sad, sad for you, but also really happy for you. Also excited that you're back and you're going to be YOU! Good luck with the Uhaul and move out situation! I'll send happy thoughts your way!
I'm with Amanda. Steal the dog. Sorry that all of that happened. Hopefully you'll be able to fill your summer with awesome happy things and forget about the stuff you're missing.
Bad things leave so amazing things can take their place, keep your head up, you're amazing!
But seriously steal the fkn dog!!!
-Erika
http://9to5dropout.com/
So glad you're back! But YES what they said, "STEAL THE DOG."
Hugs and vodka! Glad you're back...even though you had to go through all that. Cheers to a great summer! :)
Ah so sorry to hear this! Glad you're back though. Virtual shots!
And def go all Legally Blonde and get that dog back!!
Those are great lessons though. I couldn't of said it better myself. You hit the nail on the head. The biggest lesson I learned too is I was way happier getting back to who I was than pretending to be the person he wanted me to be. I think woman are always more willing to sacrifice the things they love most for the ones we love more in this world. I have two great danes, best animals I've ever owned. They're so human it's unreal.
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